You know what I find difficult about any attempt at losing weight (or really any attempt at anything in life)? Patience. I have a few good days that go according to plan, I see the number on the scale dip a bit and I immediately start asking myself how I can speed things along. And when it comes to losing weight, you can speed it along–if you are looking forward to gaining it back. I have learned that if I implement something as a weightloss measure that won’t be permanent–like skipping meals, quitting drinking–the weight loss will be as temporary as the behavior. That’s why it’s so key to accept yourself and appreciate yourself as you are right now, today. Because even if I am able to lose weight, with my personality and eating obligations, it’s going to take a while.